Mad About Love

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2010-03-13T19:44:00.000+08:00

You know guys? They are actually a bunch of insensitive souls.
Alright, it may not apply to all guys. And it may not fair for me to say this as a general statement.
So, allow me to make amendment. So, this is how it should be:

You know guys? Most of them are a bunch of insensitive souls.
Don't you agree? Well, you may not agree 100%. Honestly, even I don't think that most of them are insensitive souls all the time. Probably just a couple of times. And, it's possible also to say that some guys are really insensitive souls and that we need to knock out some sense in them!
*Laughing out loud*

And ladies, if you think that this post is criticising guys and you like it, wait till it's your turn! :)
It's obvious, what I am saying is that, there will be a time when I will talk about the bad side of women when it comes to relationships. In fact, I know what to write in my next post already.
"Women are, but a bunch of complicated creatures." Just joking. No offense, but woman are very complicated. Let's focus about this some other time, alright?

Back to guys being insensitive souls.

Insensitive souls.
Not that they have no feelings.
But, it's just that they are insensitive when it comes to words.
Or should I say ignorant? Or less observant? Or factual persons?

As a matter of fact, men tend to keep the matters to themselves rather than share it with the partner.
But, do you know that women like it when the men share their problems?
As a matter of fact, men tend to be less sensitive to words.
But, do you know that women like it when the men say "I Love You" most of the time?
As a matter of fact, men tend to think that women need time to be alone and to calm down.
But, do you know that women want the men to persuade her, pacify her and go all the way to make the women smile?

Guys, I know it's not easy for you to win your girls' heart. What more, to make her yours.
But, do you know that actions are louder than words, and that, if you really show the girls that you are willing to go all the way to win her, that alone shows that YOU'VE WIN HALF THE BATTLE?
If not, what is the purpose of the statement, "BEST MAN WINS"?

Best man wins. A simple statement. Yet, it holds a lot of meanings.
Yes, you know that the girl loves you so much that you think it's almost impossible for her to change her love for you to someone else. But, have you ever really thought about girl's feelings and emotions? Have you ever research about them?
If you think, by getting them to be your girlfriends today, they will stick by you until death do you apart, then, dream on guys! If you think, by getting them to say I Love You to you today, they will say I Love You to you tomorrow and the day after that, dream on guys! If you think, by getting them to be with you for the next one week, they will be with you for the next one month, dream on guys!

On a serious note, women may say I Love You today. But, they may not say it tomorrow.
Whose fault is it? Now, in relationship, never ever look for the faults. Instead, look for ways to make it better. Find the solutions to make your relationship better than yesterday. And, it's never too late to say I Love You. :)

I am nobody to say advice to you.
I have no qualification that allow me to write about this.
But deep inside, I believe that I ought to share my experience to you guys.

Women seek constant attention. And to that, look out for signs. Look out for signals that she's giving out. Look at the words she's using. Look at her body language. Look at the way she's reacting to your actions. Look out! Look out! Look out!

Love Quotes

2010-03-13T14:39:00.000+08:00

A candle may melt and it’s fire may die, but the love you have given me will always stay as a flame in my heart.

If 10 persons care for you, one of them is me.
If 1 person cares for you, that would be me again.
If no one cares for you, that means I am not in this world.

...The ONE & ONLY...

2010-03-13T14:30:00.000+08:00

How do you define your relationship with your boyfriend?
How do you know that you have a chemistry with the man that you call "hubby", "darling" or "dear"?
How confident are you that he's THE ONE for you?

And the list goes on.....

Personally, I don't know how to answer those questions. And to me, by calling a person "hubby", "dear" or "darling" doesn't mean that he's the one for you. Instead, because I feel that he's the one for me that I started calling him "hubby", "darling" or "dear".

Different people may have different opinions and different views about relationships.
Some thought that having a relationship is a waste of time. Some thought that you must have a relationship with that someone before you can say whether he's the one for you. Some may find out that he's not the one after being with the person for such a long time. Some may find the answers to the above questions just by being with the person for a few hours, days, weeks, or months.
And it goes on...

On a serious note, based on experience, you may have a relationship with that man or woman for a couple of years but it does not necessarily means that you will be in love with him forever. Or that, you may say "I DO" to him/her at the end of the day.
Because there are couples out there who say "I DO" after knowing each other for 1 month.
Some may take even 10 years to say, "I DO".

And, ONLY YOU can answer the question: Is he/she THE ONE for me?

Definition of Love: Care

2010-03-12T00:36:00.000+08:00

If 10 persons care for you, one of them is me.
If 1 person cares for you, that would be me again.
If no one cares for you, that means I am not in this world.

Isn't the above statements sweet?
We all yearn for someone to love us or care about us.
We all desire for someone to show care and concerns for us.
In short, we all want to love and be loved.

LOVE is always associated with the word CARE.
When someone cares for you, it simply means that he/she loves you.
Your mum cares about you. Your dad cares about you. Simply because they LOVE you.
And, when someone loves you, he/she will care about you.
The boyfriend loves the girlfriend. The husband loves the wife.
They will definitely care about their other halves, provided the love is true love.

Love and care is like Romeo and Juliet.
Where there is love, there will be care.
And vice versa.

Welcome Love!

2010-03-12T00:09:00.000+08:00

Yet, another blog about LOVE.
Yet, another post about LOVE.
Yet, another view about LOVE.

Simply because LOVE is such a big word.
4 letters, one word, BUT hundreds definitions.

You may think that I am exaggerating by stating hundreds definitions.
Go around ask your family members, friends, colleagues, neighbours and everybody that you know, "What is LOVE?"
You will receive all kinds of answers. And that explains why LOVE is a word with a lot of definitions.

There is no need to have an objective to create a blog about LOVE.
Because you don't need a reason to talk about LOVE.
Thus, this blog is created.

Mad About Love.